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Teh One Who Knocks
06-05-2019, 10:52 AM
By Mark Hodge - The Sun


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A 17-year-old girl who was raped as a young child has been legally euthanised at her home after her suffering became “unbearable.”

Noa Pothoven died on Sunday in an “end-of-life clinic” bed in her living room in the Netherlands after battling mental health problems for years.

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The teenager from Arnhem was granted the right to end her own life after sexual assaults and rapes as a small girl led her to develop post-traumatic stress disorder, depression and anorexia.

She was attacked three times as a youngster.

The first two incidents were molestations when she attended children's parties aged 11 and 12 before she was raped by two men when she was 14 in the Elderveld neighbourhood of the city.

For years she never revealed the horrific abuse because it left her feeling ashamed, the 17-year-old said.

Last year, Noa said that she had reported the attacks to police saying she hoped the men will one day be arrested.

She told the Gelderlander in December that she initially contacted the Life End Clinic in The Hague without telling her loved ones.

The teenager said: "Out of fear and shame, I relive the fear, that pain every day. Always scared, always on my guard. And to this day my body still feels dirty.

"My house has been broken into, my body, that can never be undone. "

Noa spent her final hours saying goodbye to her heartbroken friends and family.

The day before she died, the Dutch teen posted a message on Instagram revealing her decision to die.

She wrote: “I deliberated for quite a while whether or not I should share this, but decided to do it anyway.

“Maybe this comes as a surprise to some, given my posts about hospitalisation, but my plan has been there for a long time and is not impulsive.

“I will get straight to the point: within a maximum of 10 days I will die.”

She explained that she made the difficult decision after “battling” mental anguish for most of her life.

Noa continued: “After years of battling and fighting, I am drained.

“I have quit eating and drinking for a while now, and after many discussions and evaluations, it was decided to let me go because my suffering is unbearable.”

She added that while she was “alive” she felt as if she was merely surviving, writing: “I breathe, but I no longer live.”

The Dutch teen asked her friends to “'not convince me that this is not good, this is my decision and it is final.

"Love is letting go, in this case.”

She said her mother Lisette had "always been there for me" - however according to Dutch law, her mum did not have a say in her daughter's decision.

Noa had penned an award winning autobiography called Winning or Learning which detailed her struggles with mental health including suicide attempts.

She said she wanted the book to help vulnerable children in Holland as the country does not have specialised clinics where youngsters can be treated for psychological or physical trauma.

Last year, she revealed that she had been admitted to hospital in a critical condition after her anorexia had left her organs on the brink of failure.

Doctors placed her into a medically-induced coma to feed her through tubes.

Dutch minister Lisa Westerveld, who first made contact with Noa in December after her newspaper interview, visited the 17-year-old before she was euthanised.

She said: "It was nice to see her again. It is also very unreal. Noa was incredibly strong and very open. I will never forget her. We will continue her struggle. "

According to Dutch law, euthanasia is legal as long as it is performed in accordance with the strict standards described in the 'Termination of Life on Request and Assisted Suicide (Review Procedures) Act' which was passed in parliament in 2001 and became law in 2002.

Kids as young as 12 can be euthanised in the Netherlands but only after a doctor agrees that their suffering it unbearable with no clear resolution in sight.

Euthanasia is still illegal in the UK but is legal in parts of the US, Canada and Belgium.

British patients wishing to die have travelled to Dignitas - a non-profit society in Switzerland which provides assisted or accompanied suicide to its members, provided their wishes are signed off by independent doctors.

Since 1998, nearly 350 Britons have ended their lives at the Swiss clinic, according to the Campaign for Dignity in Dying.

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DemonGeminiX
06-05-2019, 10:57 AM
:rip: Little one. I'm sorry this world was so cruel to you.

lost in melb.
06-05-2019, 11:11 AM
That's rough. Pity she couldn't be matched with appropriate care. There's always a way.

Goofy
06-05-2019, 12:38 PM
What a fucking sin :(

Hal-9000
06-05-2019, 02:30 PM
Christ that's tough. I just saw a news piece from here featuring a cancer patient in all sorts of pain/distress who can't convince doctors for an end of life scenario.

Teh One Who Knocks
06-05-2019, 02:51 PM
Christ that's tough. I just saw a news piece from here featuring a cancer patient in all sorts of pain/distress who can't convince doctors for an end of life scenario.

I think the euthanasia laws in Holland may be a little too liberal. Like Lost said, too bad she couldn't have been directed towards the right kind of counseling/care. For me, this gives justification to all the young kids/teens that go ahead and take their own lives when in reality, there is very, very little worth choosing to take your life over. Sure she suffered a lot of trauma, but there's people (doctors and/or therapists) trained to help people get through this. Killing yourself at 17 is just wrong.

Hal-9000
06-05-2019, 03:08 PM
I think the euthanasia laws in Holland may be a little too liberal. Like Lost said, too bad she couldn't have been directed towards the right kind of counseling/care. For me, this gives justification to all the young kids/teens that go ahead and take their own lives when in reality, there is very, very little worth choosing to take your life over. Sure she suffered a lot of trauma, but there's people (doctors and/or therapists) trained to help people get through this. Killing yourself at 17 is just wrong.

Yeah I agree.

Just got a bad reminder. Right after my Dad was diagnosed with stage four cancer we were sitting with the first doctor assigned to treat him with radiation. It was a meet and greet for us to ask questions before my Dad decided on which treatments he wanted to try.

My asshole brother interrupts the doc and says - Hey, you guys have doctors that do assisted suicides in this province don't you? It's legal here isn't it?

The doctor was a cancer radiation specialist who barely spoke English (I think he was Czechoslovakian) and became very uncomfortable, leaving his nurse to find out about 'the inquiry'.

My Dad never asked for or had spoken about that to anyone in our family. This was right after my Dad's diagnosis when we were trying to be positive and not give in to the inevitable.

And people wonder why I think my brother is a jerkoff asshole.

Teh One Who Knocks
06-05-2019, 03:27 PM
Yeah I agree.

Just got a bad reminder. Right after my Dad was diagnosed with stage four cancer we were sitting with the first doctor assigned to treat him with radiation. It was a meet and greet for us to ask questions before my Dad decided on which treatments he wanted to try.

My asshole brother interrupts the doc and says - Hey, you guys have doctors that do assisted suicides in this province don't you? It's legal here isn't it?

The doctor was a cancer radiation specialist who barely spoke English (I think he was Czechoslovakian) and became very uncomfortable, leaving his nurse to find out about 'the inquiry'.

My Dad never asked for or had spoken about that to anyone in our family. This was right after my Dad's diagnosis when we were trying to be positive and not give in to the inevitable.

And people wonder why I think my brother is a jerkoff asshole.

Maybe you should have signed your brother up for the procedure since he was so interested in it.

Muddy
06-05-2019, 03:27 PM
Nords do not fuck around...

Hal-9000
06-05-2019, 03:41 PM
Maybe you should have signed your brother up for the procedure since he was so interested in it.

I believe people should have that right when they're sick and/or in pain. My Mom for example is slipping away (she's 99 lbs now) and there's no dignity in most end of life scenarios.

My brother has the sensitivity of a serial killer and used to make jokes about the nurses and dementia patients. Because that's 'his way of handling difficult situations'.

I recently had to coordinate a mobile teeth cleaning company who handles special needs patients for my Mom and it wasn't easy. Brother made his regular jokes and criticisms through email and I finally had enough. No more notes or phone calls to him for weekly updates about my Mom, the house, me, birthday wishes...nothing. He's earned it.

The timing of that question with my Dad was so far out of line I'm beginning to think we're not related.

PorkChopSandwiches
06-05-2019, 03:59 PM
I was surprised by this, I'm all for euthanasia when you are terminal. I dont understand the idea of keeping people alive when they are dying for the sake of keeping them alive. Especially when they dont want to live like that

Teh One Who Knocks
06-06-2019, 11:26 AM
By Amanda Prestigiacomo - The Daily Wire


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On Tuesday, reports flooded the Internet of a Dutch teenage rape victim being legally euthanized for depression. However, clarified reporting has revealed that although Noa Pothoven, 17, did request to be medically euthanized, she was refused the deadly "treatment." Tragically, Pothoven died of self-starvation on Sunday.

"Initial reports claimed Noa Pothoven chose to end her life Sunday with the assistance of an end of life clinic, which has been legal in the Netherlands since 2002," said a Fox News report. "But it is unclear whether she died because doctors directly intervened, or if she refused to eat."

A spokesman for Dutch parliament member Lisa Westerveld told DutchNews.nl that "as far as we know, [Pothoven] died because she didn't eat any more." Westerveld was allowed to say good-bye to the teen before she passed.

According to the U.K.-based outlet The Sun, Pothoven suffered from post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), depression, and anorexia. She was reportedly molested as a child and raped by two men at the age of 14.

On Wednesday, POLITICO Europe correspondent Naomi O’Leary corrected the apparent misreporting from mainstream outlets, such as The Daily Beast and The Daily Mail (UK), regarding the teen’s death.

“I spoke to Paul Bolwerk, a reporter who has been covering the story for [De Gelderlander] since 2018,” posted O’Leary in a Twitter thread. “Noa Pothoven had been severely ill with anorexia and other conditions for some time. Without telling her parents, she sought and was refused euthanasia.”

“The family had tried many kinds of psychiatric treatment and Noa Pothoven was repeatedly hospitalised; she made a series of attempts to kill herself in recent months. In desperation the family sought electro shocktherapy, which was refused due to her young age,” explained the reporter. “After electroshock therapy was refused, Pothoven insisted she wanted no further treatment and a hospital bed was set up at home in the care of her parents. At the start of June she began refusing all fluids and food, and her parents and doctors agreed not to force feed her.”

“A decision to move to palliative care and not to force feed at the request of the patient is not euthanasia. Dutch media did not report Noa Pothoven's death as a case of euthanasia. This idea only appeared in English language pickups of Dutch reporting,” O’Leary added.

The death of Pothoven sparked commentary on the practice of euthanasia and assisted suicide. For example, Pope Francis weighed in via Twitter, writing, “Euthanasia and assisted suicide are a defeat for all. We are called never to abandon those who are suffering, never giving up but caring and loving to restore hope.”
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In the Netherlands, euthanasia and assisted suicide have been legalized since 2002. In August, an elderly woman was reportedly euthanized against her will upon the directive of her own family.

"[T]he 74-year-old unidentified woman had been suffering dementia for some time and previously told people she would undergo assisted suicide if ‘the time was right.’ As her dementia progressed, she never put in a request to die and had surpassed the point of giving her full consent. It was then that her doctor declared her to be ‘suffering intolerably’ and proceeded to euthanize her,” according to LiveAction, The Daily Wire reported.

At least 83 mentally ill people were killed by assisted suicide in the Netherlands in 2017, a LiveAction report said.

DemonGeminiX
06-06-2019, 11:46 AM
:-s

How long did she starve herself for? You can go without food for a pretty damn long time before it starts affecting your health. I've fasted for 3 weeks straight several years ago and all that happened to me was I lost a good 10-15 pounds.

Still, very sad.

PorkChopSandwiches
06-06-2019, 03:54 PM
I was just coming in with this update, not really euthanasia if you just starve yourself