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Teh One Who Knocks
03-11-2012, 11:48 AM
By Emine Sinmaz - The Daily Mail


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A 14-year-old schoolgirl has hanged herself after enduring two years of relentless bullying by her female classmates.

Eden Wormer, an eighth grade student at Cascade Middle School in Vancouver, Washington, committed suicide on Wednesday after her efforts at trying to fit in failed.

Her older sister Audri said Eden changed her appearance several times, dying her hair, tanning and getting contact lenses, to get the girls to stop harassing her.

But the teen begged her sister not to tell anybody about what she was suffering at the hands of the group of eighth grade girls because she was afraid it would get worse.

The bullying allegedly began when Eden was in the sixth grade, becoming more intense last year, and eventually tipping her over the edge.

‘Halfway through the seventh grade was when it started to get really bad,’ Audri told KATU News.

‘The bullying just kept getting worse, and I kept telling her I’m going to do something, I’m going to do something, and I should have done something.

'I should have just not listened to her. I should have done something, because maybe she would have been here. I just want her back.’

Audri recalled Eden's final words: 'She said, "I love you daddy, goodnight," and gave him a kiss and hug, and then the next morning he found her dead.'

The grieving sister told why her sister chose to take her own life: 'My sister killed herself because of evil, evil people in this world, people that feel like they have to make fun of other people to make themselves feel better.

'Really, she didn't kill herself, the people that picked on her and treated her like crap and wouldn't accept her, they killed her. They killed her, they broke her down so badly, so emotionally, that she felt like she was nothing, that she had to end her life because she was nothing.'

Eden's older brother, Erin, added: 'Because people don't know what a limit is, I lost part of my family.'

Eden often took to her Facebook page to voice her insecurities, writing: 'im super funny and out going i love all my friends n family n that includes all my haterz.! :) n im funn to hang around too. :)'

On February 12, she wrote: "omg im such a loner i dont have a valentines n the only thing im celebrating valentines day with is my bummble bee pillow pet.'

Eden's Facebook page has since been flooded with message about bullying. One person posted: 'It’s sad to think it took someone to kill themselves for everyone to realize what bullying can truly do.'

Another friend, Samantha Lynn, said: 'I wish it didn't take people this long to relize [sic] how beautiful you are and how unique you are. You are the sweetest girl in the world. I wish you knew you didn't have to fit in. It's good to stand out.'

There was a candlelight vigil in honour of the teen at her school last night. More than 100 people turned up to pay tribute to the girl they described as 'bright' and 'talented', and spoke about their own experiences of bullying.

Vancouver police say they have not found any evidence to indicate the bullying rose to the level of a crime.

The Evergreen School District said it would be interviewing students and searching through files to see if Eden ever reported any physical or emotional abuse.

Goofy
03-11-2012, 12:31 PM
What a shame :(

RBP
03-11-2012, 12:51 PM
wow that sucks. :|

MrsM
03-11-2012, 08:52 PM
Very sad - hard to help if it's not reported... :rip:

deebakes
03-11-2012, 10:11 PM
this is happening way to much these days :sad:

Hal-9000
03-11-2012, 10:38 PM
good Lord ....:(

"Eden changed her appearance several times, dying her hair, tanning and getting contact lenses, to get the girls to stop harassing her."

She's in grade 6 or 7 addressing 'all her haterz' in a Facebook post?.........that shit should never have to happen

Godfather
03-11-2012, 11:17 PM
Brutal. Going to ruin her sister and parents. That's just really tragic. :(

Method512
03-11-2012, 11:29 PM
That's just sad... :'(

People have different ways to deal with bullies...and hers was the most tragic one.....RIP

Arkady Renko
03-12-2012, 10:53 AM
this is happening way to much these days :sad:

I'm pretty sure bullying has been around since they invented schools, or maybe evensince they invented kids. It's just a fairly recent development that people will speak about it openly. Not that it'd make it any better, but for once I don't believe the youth od today is any worse than their predecessors. They've merely got new ways to bully the victims with facebook, twitter etc.

PorkChopSandwiches
03-12-2012, 03:38 PM
She was pretty cute, seems odd she would be harassed like that

Acid Trip
03-12-2012, 03:43 PM
Facebook has taken bullying to a whole new level. Kids used to go home and the bullying stopped.

Now they go home and the bully continues to berate them online in front of all their friends.

MrsM
03-12-2012, 03:47 PM
Facebook has taken bullying to a whole new level. Kids used to go home and the bullying stopped.

Now they go home and the bully continues to berate them online in front of all their friends.

True - same with texting.

I don't know how I'll react if my kids say they are being bullied... I would want to go all "Single White Female" on them... but would probably take a more civil approach.

I just hope they tell me if it happens

Iffy
03-12-2012, 09:45 PM
At what point do we toughen up?

I am not detached in this but something needs to happen to stop this and I don't think it is all on the side of the bullies

I have held all my younger siblings as they were growing up at some point or another while they cried because someone hurt their feelings. I held them, told them I loved them, and then I told them how it really is. Rise above and don't let these petty little fuckers win. Ignore, come back, throw a punch...whatever it takes.

It seems obvious that social media exacerbates the problem . Simple solution would be to shut it down or block it. Maybe giving your kid a respite from bullshit is more important than knowing what your friend's brother's cousin had for breakfast while Zuckerberg cashes in. Pay attention to your kids

Hal-9000
03-12-2012, 10:02 PM
My nephew lost his brother in 2007....he has about 2000 Facebook friends.I don't creep his page usually but one night noticed one of his 'friends' made a rather disparaging remark about my other nephew who died.

My nephew took it well....I did not.I entered the thread and let him know what a jackass he was in about 5 successive posts.The asshole finally told me to 'just fuck off' :lol:


My comments got over 90 'likes' :oops:

Muddy
03-13-2012, 12:20 AM
My kids aren't on Facebook...

Godfather
03-13-2012, 12:41 AM
Facebook has taken bullying to a whole new level. Kids used to go home and the bullying stopped.

Now they go home and the bully continues to berate them online in front of all their friends.

So true. A lot less parenting goes on too unfortunately. Not less caring, but go ask a room full of kids how many of them have both parents working.

My brother and I were lucky enough to have my mom around when we got home from school. If there had been a shitty day or whatever, the teapot was on and someone was there. Now kids go home to an empty house, hop on facebook and shit from school just never ends. Not that every kid needs that, but most would benefit from it.

Hal-9000
03-13-2012, 12:56 AM
My kids aren't on Facebook...

Both my father and my best friend, two total pc noobs, asked me if they should join Facebook.I said no to both..

Hal-9000
03-13-2012, 12:57 AM
So true. A lot less parenting goes on too unfortunately. Not less caring, but go ask a room full of kids how many of them have both parents working.

My brother and I were lucky enough to have my mom around when we got home from school. If there had been a shitty day or whatever, the teapot was on and someone was there. Now kids go home to an empty house, hop on facebook and shit from school just never ends. Not that every kid needs that, but most would benefit from it.

My Dad was old school.If I came home crying about someone bullying me, he'd tell me to march right back out there and stand up to those mean girls :x

Teh One Who Knocks
03-13-2012, 12:59 AM
I'm not on Facebook, never have been on Facebook, and never will be on Facebook. And if I had kids, they wouldn't be on it either.