Originally Posted by
KevinD
Hal asks some very good questions. I can only speak for myself in answering.
In the home scenario, (as given, not as would be in my home) you have to make a conscious decision to go for the gun. The (in some areas) requirements that guns be key locked and or in safes, does in fact hinder your ability to access one when needed. These requirement were brought about by failure to understand the usages of a weapon, IE, leaving loaded weapons around where people who are not trained in usage could access them.
In my home, there is a loaded weapon in the living room (40cal semi auto pistol) and in the bedroom (44-40 lever action rifle)
I don't have any particular fear of my home being invaded, and my dogs would be first line of defense/warning at any rate.
My family is trained in the usage and operation of my weapons. When folks (with or without kids) come over who are not, then the guns are put away in a safe.
We don't play with them as toys. If one comes out, something (or somebody) will be shot.
This is a product of being raised this way and of being in the Military.
Second scenario:
Again, difficult situation, hard to give a blanket answer. First response would probably be to give person what they are asking for (my wallet is not worth mine or my family's life) On the other hand, if I felt there was a real danger to myself or loved ones. I would shoot with no hesitation, nor any regret.
I answered as honestly as I could. I will always try to avoid a confrontation/fight/whatever, but given no other choice, I will respond with the maximum force necessary to resolve the issue at hand.