Sometimes the kid just makes me want to
This past Wednesday was an 'open house' kind of deal for incoming freshmen for next year. Go in and drop off your class registrations, talk to teachers, check out the available sports and other extra-curriculars, get a tour of the school, all that jazz. So, we went up there and dropped off the registration and started to wander before the tours started up. Now, I know that I mentioned we may be moving out of state, but the kid got into a program in the school which coincides with local colleges here and if she does all the work to ear the credits, she can actually graduate high school with at least enough college credits to completely skip her freshman year in college and start as a sophomore, so it's kind of a big deal. So we probably won't be moving only because her education is important and we're proud of her for getting into this program (which you need to apply for and get recommendations from your teachers).
So, we started to wander and there was the teacher for this AP social studies course she just HAS to take next year. Now mostly up to this point, the kid has been kinda lazy and stuff when it comes to school, but she's done better this year. However, she's never been involved with anything remotely like an AP course, so, as we're there I say "hey, how about we go talk to the teacher so you can find out what the class is about" and of course the kid just stands there like a stature and says no.
Okay, we wander towards the gym where the sports and extra-curriculars are and we pass by a table selling school t-shirts and sweatshirts and whatnot. "Hey, want a shirt or something? I brought cash." And of course the kid says no.
We get to the gym and we were looking for the art club table because that's something she was interested in, but no one was there. I see a table set-up for the student government and I say, "hey, how about student government? I did that all 4 years I was in school and it was pretty fun." And I got the standard answer of no again.
Then I see that they were setting up the table for the lacrosse team and I would REALLY like her to take up something physical. So I say, "hey, how about lacrosse? That would be fun." Standard answer.
So we go on the tour and of course the students conducting the tour ask at each juncture if there's any questions and of course the kid doesn't make a sound the entire tour.
I was not a happy person on the ride home. I told the wife that one of us could have saved us 90 minutes of our time and just gone and dropped of the registration ourselves. I was irritated and she could tell.
/rant