Originally Posted by
Hal-9000
I remember...
Sitting in the backyard during the summer with the radio on listening to songs like Crocodile Rock, Rock the Boat and Kung Fu fighting. It was a different time because everything seemed to mean a lot more. We would wait to hear a certain song on the radio, and then freak out because they played it...that day. If you wanted to hear it more often, you bought the album. And albums usually contained seven or eight so-so songs, along with your favorite two songs.
A magazine was passed around if it had pictures or articles that were cool, no one bought multiple copies. A phone call was a big deal because to go hang out with a friend, you usually just walked over to their place and knocked on the door.
A toy was valued and kept for years. No replacements. My GI Joe had missing fingers, hair shaved off and a missing foot. If he was a vet, he would have had six Purple Heart medals. I had a toy called a 'Verti-Bird', which was a helicopter on a two foot stiff cable that extended from a central hub. It only spun around the hub in a clockwise direction, but you could dictate the height it flew at and make it hover with the controls. I had this building set that was pre-Lego and it featured little empty square frames, corner joiners and various 'wallboard or see-thru plastic glass' squares that fit into the frames. The possibilities were endless when creating a house or skyscraper or whatever. Tonka trucks were made of metal and over a foot long. You could sit on them when you were small and they never broke.
Playing a board game was an all afternoon into night thing, complete with snacks and pop. When you went home after, you were tired and satisfied from the experience. Your friends were your friends without condition. It took a family move or a death usually to end childhood relationships. We played sports all day long and no one got dehydrated or mad if they lost. We had Kool Aid and instant forgiveness.
Some kids had more things than others, and there was sadness and embarrassment if you had less than, or a crappy version of the in-thing. But it never stopped the less fortunate kids from playing with kids who had everything. There were levels and this built-in kind of respect of where you stood without ever talking about it.
When someone's Mom would call a kid's name to come in at night 'from miles away', no one would tease the guy or laugh. We would all be genuinely disappointed and feel a little sorry for him because he had to go 1/2 an hour before everyone else.
Riding bikes, playing war, playing sports and games, watching movies...it all meant something because it was real.
I feel sorry for kids today. They have everything and do nothing.