I had a big argument with three drunk girls. I said - Depending on the guy's looks, you classify a potential date as hot or a super-creep, even when they ask you to dance the exact same way.
At first they said - Oh no, we don't do that. And then they eventually admitted it was true and then stood behind their right to classify guys that way. "The creeps have no right approaching me."
Then I asked how come I'm a judgmental asshole when I say I don't like fat or ugly chicks asking me to dance?
This was a few years ago, but the essence was there. They said I was fat-shaming girls (not using that term) and I had no right to do that to women.
What they do to potential dates or dance partners is totally different