Women and men couldnt be more different could they??

[Softdreamer]

Ive just seen this posted on a friends Facebook status

She posted

"Truth is... We hide because we want to be found... We walk away to see who follows... We cry to see who wipes away the tears... And we let our hearts be broken...to see who comes...and fixes them..."

so far it has 17 likes... all female.



I was tempted to post this, but im a coward

Truth is, us men cant be bothered with all these 'games' women play.. All you women do is bitch about how friends are wonderful, then the following week how they let you down, or are two faced.
Truth is... Us men are honest and upfront with each other. Its a system that works most of the time

Maybe Im just moody today.


men and women, DISCUSS

[DemonGeminiX]

Post it, I triple dog dare you. Post the responses to it in here.

[Softdreamer]

Post it, I triple dog dare you. Post the responses to it in here.

, I think i would find myself disappearing from her friends list, and unable to see the replies

[DemonGeminiX]

DO EET!!!

[Hal-9000]

soon as someone does the - I've got something really important to say but I'll never tell unless you question me game - I walk away

[Jezter]

Post this as reply!

[Noilly Pratt]

My reply to her would be this:

Truth is...the behaviour you are describing, as a general rule, men see that as being deceitful and "playing" us. Which is the truth when you think about it.

Try a more honest approach and you might attract a more honest guy. Practice deceit, and you will get a deceitful guy who will tell you what you want to hear for a while, then leave when he tires of your game playing.

[Godfather]

Post it, I triple dog dare you. Post the responses to it in here.

Ya I agree You'll be a fucking hero man.

[Softdreamer]

The female posters of this board are strangely quiet around here...

[DemonGeminiX]

They're filing this one away until the day we ask something of them. Then they're going to throw it back in our collective faces.

[Goofy]

Post this as reply!

I like her attitude

[Jezter]

I like her attitude

I do too!

[MrsM]

Too busy to get into details - but I mostly agree with you guys. The girl's facebook thing was a cute ideal girls hold to, and basically she wants to be loved. It's different for women as men quite often fake love for sex, so I'm sure many have been burned by fake love and sometimes you need to play head games to know if the guy wants you or a one night stand. I don't like games, I don't agree with them (most of the time).

As for men being upfront and honest - please... maybe to each other - but how many guys say "I love you" then stare at the next pair of boobs that comes bouncing by? It makes some girls unsure and then they feel like they need to play these games to test you to see how you really feel.

I understand both sides and can see why women would like her status - basically if I hide and you find me... I walk away and you follow... I cry and you wipe away the tears... And you fix my broken heart - then it must be love and not just sex. AND - if it is just sex - then at least you needed to work for it

Oh and that blond blogger video -

[PorkChopSandwiches]

As for men being upfront and honest - please... maybe to each other - but how many guys say "I love you" then stare at the next pair of boobs that comes bouncing by?

I dont know what that has to do with love, who could ever stop looking. I like to say "I read the menu, I just dont eat off of it"

[Hal-9000]

and women like to say I love you...when you're doing the right thing...according to them I get soooo tired of women saying that men aren't genuine, that they don't express themselves.It seems 'we're doing ok;' as long as we fit into women's various individual criteria.I get soooo tired of being judged by someone who is miles from perfect themselves, yet expect it from us.

If I was to make a graph about what sort of behavior women wanted from men over the space of 10 weeks, it would change 3 times...depending on the day and the mood of the person doing the critiquing.Women have the unpleasant habit of getting depressed or angry over a man's behavior, without ever telling the man what it is that's upsetting them.


It's hard to have a game of football on a level playing field when the rules change and the ref won't explain why or when