Lance, you'd love this Discovery podcast comment section I frequent. The host pairs up with various people who know Star Trek inside and out. One person likes TOS, one person like Enterprise, etc.
All of them have a good working knowledge of every series and talk about people getting offended over non canonical ideas
After bitching for about five episodes, they'll settle in and try to just enjoy where Discovery is going and treat it like a new sci-fi show.
I try not to be 'that guy' and bring up every old and accepted idea that Discovery has pissed on. I did however make a list during an argument with some snowflake and got some laughs and likes from the crowd