Originally Posted by
RBP
I was with kitty when they put her down; it was gut wrenching. I swear she knew. She closed her eyes and lifted her chin for scratches one last time, then put her head down. The next morning my wife asked if she made the right decision. I said "absolutely". She looked puzzled... "so you just didn't want to tell me what to do?" "Absolutely not, that was your call, I was just trying to help you think it through". I was steadfast to make sure it was all handled... the emotions came later.
My point is that men aren't lacking emotions as we are accused, we just are better at choosing the safer time to experience and express them.