:rbp:

[Pony]

It's a whole other thing for them to tell you that you're expected to play a significant role in that kid's life on the first date. That's all kinds of fucked up.

Exactly. I have no problem dating someone with kids, but if someone came at me like that on a first date I might jump out the bathroom window too. Not because I'm afraid of being a father figure but because I'm afraid of the kids possibly unstable mother.

What was next on the first date? How many bedrooms in your house? Can I see a bank statement to see if you can afford to support your new insta-family? Please sign these adoption papers.

[lost in melb.]

A woman shouldn't be looking for anyone other than the father to help raise her child. Full stop.

[Teh One Who Knocks]

[Hal-9000]

Women without children are just as bad (if not worse) when looking at single fathers thinking that those men are carrying too much baggage and have baby mama drama

Most people that are going on dates aren't looking for instant families. Call it a maturity thing if you want, but you're not automatically responsible for somebody else's rugrat just because you're out on a date with them. It's one thing for your date to tell you that he or she has a kid. It's a whole other thing for them to tell you that you're expected to play a significant role in that kid's life on the first date. That's all kinds of fucked up. From what I understand, Tinder's the booty call app. People aren't on that app looking for a significant other. If she's looking for a good man to be a Daddy for her little girl, then maybe she should be on eHarmony instead.

Exactly. I have no problem dating someone with kids, but if someone came at me like that on a first date I might jump out the bathroom window too. Not because I'm afraid of being a father figure but because I'm afraid of the kids possibly unstable mother.

What was next on the first date? How many bedrooms in your house? Can I see a bank statement to see if you can afford to support your new insta-family? Please sign these adoption papers.

A woman shouldn't be looking for anyone other than the father to help raise her child. Full stop.

Isn't the larger problem that she compared herself to Jewish prisoners in a concentration camp when someone left a date with her?

I'm a gentile and feel offended. Good thing I'm not able to respond to those shit posts.

[Teh One Who Knocks]

[Teh One Who Knocks]

[Hal-9000]

You know what helped me get along with women in general? Discovering every subject is situational. The moment you make a declaration or stick up for an idea, you're walking into a 50/50 zone depending on the day.

You married guys already have medals on this particular battlefield, I'll stand down now

[Pony]

Isn't the larger problem that she compared herself to Jewish prisoners in a concentration camp when someone left a date with her?

I'm a gentile and feel offended. Good thing I'm not able to respond to those shit posts.

I think we've become so accustomed to those on the left making delusional, offensive and insensitive comments (calling everyone Hitler,Nazi's etc) that we have become a bit numb to it and/or just learned to ignore the remark. It's sad really.

[brah pitt]

[DemonGeminiX]

[lost in melb.]

Bwahahahaha!!

[Teh One Who Knocks]

You need to read the comments in this Twitter thread

[Teh One Who Knocks]

[RBP]

You need to read the comments in this Twitter thread

Oh for god's sake. Not to mention that more women are graduating from medical school than guys.

[Muddy]

Oh for god's sake. Not to mention that more women are graduating from medical school than guys.

I get it (I did not click through, but I can only imagine).. But the stereotype is Boys are doctors and girls are nurses, regardless of the actual outcome.