It's a fair thought, but this guy is far too trustworthy for even her to worry about that (we planned on a cabin-type stag, nowhere near any deviance). This guy is too wholesome. And to her credit, she was helping us plan the surprise and it turns out she knew it was a country trip and not Vegas or something raunchy.
Met up with friends to chat about the future of the stag weekend and heard more shit. Sounds like he was the one that called off the wedding the minute she got back from the bachelorette. She was blindsided. I think it was her incessant phone calls and extreme anxiety being away from him for three nights that caused him to finally see the light that her mental health/clingy-ness is not in a place to get married. She's not working right now, she's doing a masters degree on top of planning a wedding and I think it's caused her to come totally come unraveled. I don't know why it took so long for it to click, but I'm relieved he had the balls to call of the wedding 3 weeks out, rather than just going through it because it's too late.
They're still together for now, and mentioned perhaps a small wedding in 2020 when 'their mental health is in a better place'.' Doubt it though.
I just want to say I appreciate all your interest in this. I love having you guys here who take genuine interest The former bachelor party will be a riot. I'll have some good stories to tell for sure.