But that's the thing, they can. They aren't wealthy or anything like that, but they have a double income and no kids and they bot make decent money. So it's not like they are eating ramen and hot dogs kinda people They show up at the Christmas get together with the whole family and they sit there and collect the gifts that everyone gets for them and they give out...absolutely nothing. Not even a card. They sit there and watch the gifts pour in and do absolutely nothing in return. It pisses me off to no end and I have a hard time biting my tongue about it every year.